My wife and I are girding our loins in preparation to deal with contractors next week to see about having an addition built onto the house for dedicated HT room. I have most of the equipment for the room already, but we're trying to decide if we want a projector or a large 1080p LCD flat panel TV or a 1080p LCD projector (in the $3k range). One of the deciding factors is how user friendly a projector will be. My wife doesn't want to have to fiddle with anything other than turning everything on/off, changing channels, or adjusting the volume with our universal remote. How user friendly is a projector, as friendly as the average HDTV? For example, will it automatically adjust the picture size when changing from 4:3 to a 16:9 source, etc? Are there any downsides to using a projector for casual TV viewing?